Saturday, May 16, 2009
Saturday, March 28, 2009
To Anonymous...................
Actually the NZ police do take spousal abuse seriously. If they choose not to convict somebody it is usually becuase they have a VERY good reason not to. In fact it seems to get more attention here than other crimes as it is popular in the media and easy to draw sympathy to. But surely Ms.blog owner knows that already ;)
Anonymous, you may be right but my ex husband was charged but got away with it because he is such a good liar and the police said as no one saw him do it there was not enough evidence to take it to trial, they have apologised to me since i last wrote that they could not do more to help me or to get him a conviction, but he managed to buy his way out of a conviction by making a donation to the womens refuge aided by his lawyer girlfriend and her friend another lawyer but maybe it's my fault for running away and not staying there and letting him kick me down the steps as he was trying to do.
Maybe one day you will be in my position where you have been with your husband for 12 years and you loved your husband so much that you give up your career to make his business work, put a huge deposit on your home so he didn't have to so his ex and son didn't have to buy him out, trust him with your life and work and work and work and one day he rings you up and says he not coming home as he is having an affair with one of his friends girlfriend, then he'll spend a year saying he loves you , then going back to her, then me....you know, really really nasty head games, and you will be hurting inside so much you can hardly bear the thought of carrying on living and she will be a lawyer that used to work for the courts here and knows nearly every lawyer and policeman in town and your husband will laugh at you saying 'don't even try to get what is yours because she will get you and is determined to do anything to stop me seeing you' and she will do all the paperwork and see his lawyer to make you lose your share of the business that you worked so hard to stop from going into bankruptcy and your job, your savings, your daughter is going to lose her home, her inheritance and has lost her stepfather she loved, and in desperation when you are on your hands and knees begging your husband not to take the only thing you have left, your home, he will do this to you ...........then maybe you will be qualified to make coments on whether or not the NZ police and courts take spousal abuse seriously.
Unless you are someone like my ex's girlfriend and you will be sweet ;)
To every one else, thank you so much, my ex has made my life a living hell and when it gets to much it helps so much to be able to write on here
Sunday, March 01, 2009
just suck it up ladies (if you are in New Zealand)

If you are in NZ and your x punches you to the floor and kicks you in the face as you are trying to get up DON'T bother going to the New Zealand police as they think it is okay to do the above and leave bruises like the photo above , then when your x says you did it yourself DON'T bother about telling the truth because all the police will do is downgrade his charges and he gets discharged without conviction.................
excuse my bitterness
and yes, the police have seen these injuries (and took photo's) plus the 46 briuses he left up one arm and the handprint on the other, the bruises on my back and stomach, the lumps on the back of my head where he kicked me in the back of the head while I was crawling away and seen the scans and xrays done on my shoulder showing the torn tendon and internal swelling that was trapped between my bones
Friday, January 02, 2009
Thank you
Thank you for all your thoughts and advice
For various complications both the police and legal aid are as not helpful as maybe they could be.
I have a lawyer.
I have had offers from help from womans refugee and have a counsellor.
I have also realised how incrediably stupid i am for writing anything in this blog as he knows of it's existance.
Thank you all for caring.........back to cats soon
Sunday, November 02, 2008
In loving memory of NDTTS's

Love Mitten, Poppygirl, Tottie, Ms Meezer, Mummy and Tara The Teenage Goddess
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PS: Miss Ella Mae, Mitten's love object from afar over the fence is being lovingly looked after by one of her very good friends
Sunday, September 07, 2008
In loving memory of our Orb

Wednesday, February 13, 2008
why we haven't bin blogging plus Meriker here they come
but moving on.........................................................................................
only good thing it did was pay for a holiday for The Teenage Goddess so at the moment she has bin to Toyko, Austria, Spain, London, Scotland, Belgium, Berlin, Switzerland Ireland and there must be other places becos she said she had bin to 11 countries BUT THE BEST BIT OF ALL WHICH IS WHAT POPPYGIRL IS SULKING ABOUT BECOS SHE WANTS TO GO IS on Monday Mum is meeting the Teenage Goddess in MERIKER in the town of movie stars, botox and shopping, LA, for 11 days.
oh and plus they are flying to Las Vegas for 2 days at the end
So can any of you sofisticated LA or Las Vegas Merikercan cats give them advice on best and cheapest places to shop, how much and best place for more botox and any thing else exciting they need to know cos they have never bin there before, ever.
Mungbean the flatmate is looking after us but she is going to England to live again before mum and The Teenage Goddess get back but that's ok cos mum's friend is going to cat sit us for 2 days before they get home.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
strange things in the garden
very surreal (new sofisicated word the meezer has taught me)
love Tottie
Sunday, November 04, 2007
a break from sadness for a little while
1) eating a lot and getting fat
2) his genius artwork.
In this particular work of art Mitten has experimented merging Houghton Bay Bush fusion with mouse and kitchen which is a new theme in his never ending quest for perfection in his artwork.
This is Mittens latest creation, he simply calls it "Death of mouse by Commercialism".
by Mitten (of course)
Disclaimer: The mouse part of my artwork has not been created in any way by human hands but was all done at night by me which is when all genius's do their bestest work - Mitten
Friday, September 21, 2007
Thank you.....
It has helped us, Mum & The Teenage Goddess so much knowing cats & people care.
The Teenage Goddess has been especially upset because Jupe was her boy, and, even tho' her eyes leaked when she read what every one had written, she felt the support and love from all.
Thank you again
Monday, September 17, 2007
one of our saddest days
He had been hit by a car.
Rest in Peace Juipter - we all loved you very very much.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Amazing but true..................................
yes, amazing but true
love Poppygirl
Sunday, August 19, 2007
long time, no purr
2) The Teenage Goddess turned 19 - her last year as a teenager, scary, she will need a new name next year when she turns 20 as she won't be a teenager any more!!!!!
5) Tottie is still unsure if mum's friend and miss meezer are vishus tabbykillers in disguise that have snucked into the house to get him but as nothing has happened (yet) along those lines he is starting to let his guard down just a tiny bit.
6) we all love Miss Meezer Minky poo champange rabbit, even tho she is a bit alien looking to us and doesn't have much furs to keep warm like us.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Friday, July 20, 2007
AH - this is the life
Monday, July 09, 2007
score
being a very helpful boy i camed to help her and look what i founded.........
Sunday, July 08, 2007
BRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Staying cosy with The Teenage Goddess
Tuesday, July 03, 2007
Mitten Worship
Sunday, July 01, 2007
i don't know about all this by Tottie
Mummy, i really don't like the baby meezer, she looks small but she could be a vishus tabbykiller in disguise, you never know.
you keep saying she just wants to play but i am not sure.....
mmmmmmm. she doesn't look to vishus.....
but better to be safe than sorry i always say so i'll just check & see if the window is open if i have to make a quick escape if need be.....
it's not, mummy let me out, let me out now!!!! the baby meezer is following me
i'll just stay outside cos she's not allowed outside yet
maybe one day i will play with her , when i am sure
love Tottie
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
getting to know Miss Meezer
Tottie is still wary but Mum has been putting rescue remedy on his ears in the hope he will calm down soon.
Here are some photo's of her learning to use the computer with The Teenage Goddess & her in my basket.
lots to learn about blogging so paying lots of attention
don't distract her, she is learning with The Teenage Goddess
aaaah, nice basket for two in front of the fire
Love Poppygirl
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
A present for Miss Meezer
i am the only sexy girl around here and i wanted to keep it that way so i ams reserving judgements for a while and staying in my basket & Tottie is scared of her which is stupid because she is half his size but you know Tottie, he thinks every thing new is a vishus tabby killer in disguise !!!!!!
Mum & The Teenage Goddess think that the new Meezer is to be called Miss Meezer champange rabbit ~ Miss Meezer or rabbit for short.
Here are some photo's of Miss Meezers new toy & me watching from the safety of my basket.
Love Poppygirl
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Back
When she was on her travels she bought home a suprize, she bought a MEEZER.
the meezer is only about 4 months old and we all hissed at her for a while but now she is settling
in and just loves the sheepskin rug next to the fire
i have putted pictures & a film up of the meezer, she hasn't got a name yet, are there any other meezers out there that can tell Mummy & The Teenage Goddess the protocal for naming meezers as on her papers all her relatives hav posh names.
enjoying the sheepskin rug & fire
Hanging with The Mitten

a arty photo by The Teenage Goddess
here is a film from The Teenage Goddesss
LoveTottie
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Running away
Love Tottie
Saturday, May 19, 2007
The Teenage Goddess gets tagged
Being a Teenage Goddess is a very time consuming task but we have managed to pin The Teenage Goddess down and here are 7 random facts about her.
1) She is 18
2) She used to like Hot Josh but he likes his human nip to much so she doesn't think he is hot anymore.
3) She is tallish, Blonde & has green eyes
4) Jupiter is really her cat & she likes him the best cos she says he has the most personality.
5) She prays that no one she knows will ever know it is her on the blog because she would be embarrassed that's why she won't let Mum put her photo or name on the blog.
6) She wants a Rottweiller or another tuff type dog
7) She has been on holiday to Bali, Australia, & Thailand ( she loved the shopping in Bangkok best ever) a few times but can't wait to go to Meriky to do what she does best which is SHOP SHOP SHOP until you DROP.
Being a Teenage Goddess she has just got a phone call from another Teenage Goddess so she is going off to do what she loves best, SHOP.
Saturday, May 12, 2007
Roast chicken for dinner
Friday, May 11, 2007
Tagged
These are the rules:
Each player starts with seven random facts about themselves. Those who are tagged need to write on their own blog about the seven things and the rules. You need to choose seven bloggin buddies to tag and list their names. Don’t forget to leave them a comment that they have been tagged and to read your blog.
Orb:
1) I have been with Mum & The Teenage Goddess since i was born.
2) When i was born i was one of 3 kittens that belonged to Nan, Mum & the baby Teenage Goddess were staying with them for a while & mum didn't want another cat so decided to sort of ignore us but i followed her round all the time, sat on her knee every time she sat down, hopped into bed with her until she gave up & we have been together ever since.
3) If i feel insecure or happy i lick mum.
4) i am a old fella who is 18 & sometimes get confused at night & maw loud cos i have gone the wrong way in the house in the dark.
5) i have some arthritis in my back joints so i have to have a cat pep pill everyday which has NZ green lipped mussel in it which helps me not be so stiff
6) my kidneys are starting to go so i have to have half a heart pill tablet every day, this sounds funny because there is nothing wrong with my heart but the side effects of the pill stop kidneys from getting worse .
7) i always sleep in the bed with mum at night , i sleep just like a bean next to mum with my head on the pillow.
Jupiter:
1) Mum bought me for a present for the Teenage Goddesss when she married the one we don't talk about
2) i always wait until mum is sitting down then i yowl at the door until she gets up & lets me in , then i run out the cat flap & come back and yowl at the door again.
3) i have a good party trick, if you ask me for a kiss i will kiss you, if i don't you just have to tap me on my shoulder & say" excuse me Jupiter, where's my kiss" & then i will kiss you.
4) When i was younger i had feline acne under my chin.
5) sometimes i love you, sometimes i don't.
6) i like to annoy mum by crying outside the window when she is nearly asleep so she has to get out of bed & let me in, then i go out the catflap.
7) i had a big brother boycat called Toc who i loved but he died a few years ago, i miss him still cos we used to wrestle until he got to old & sick.
he was black & 17 when he died.
Mitten the Smitten Kitten:
1) i was called Morb (short for 'mini orb') when i was first gotted, then my name was changed.
2) when i was young they were so worried about me being skinny they tooked me to the vet & the vet said" don't worry , he is a young cat & will grow, he's just lean & mean" & he was right cos now i am a big mancat.
3) i don't like having my back patted but love my ears & chin being scritched.
4) i am a very sociable cat & always join in with any bean activity.
5) i had another home for a very short while but the small boy cut off all my whiskers but one so they took me back to the pet shop where he we don't talk about got me for Mum as a christmas present.
i had a very lucky escape i think. i now have a fine crop of whiskers tho'.
6) when i eat cat biscuits i always take just a few out of the bowl & drop them on the floor & eat them one by one.
7) i talk & chirp lots & when i am deeply asleep in make cute squeaky noises.
Poppygirl:
1) when you pick me up i don't drape & relax like the others, i have to be held close or my claws come out & i cling.
2) if i am hungry i sit up on my back legs & beg .
3) i have a low mournful cry like a meezer that i use to full advantage if i want some thing .
4) i like to sometimes gently nibble fingers with my front teeth
5) i have a hard sleek muscley body and have shorter fur that is not as soft as the others , a long skinny tail & a narrow shaped face.
6) when people meet me for the 1st time they often ask if i am part siamese.
7) i am sexy.
Teeny Tiny Tottie McTabby:
1) i ams small.
2) i only love & want to be with Mummy , no one else.
3) when Mummy gets up in the morning i talks & talks & talks to her & then when she sits on the human toilet & does wees i sits on her kneee & talks some more.
4) my mummycat died when i was a tiny tiny furbaby, so little i had to be hand feeded with a dropper at the pet shop & was to small to come home for a while after he who we don't talk about boughted me. i comed to live with Mummy 10 days after Poppygirl did & we are about the same age.
5) i am scared of nearly everybody except Mummy & worry all the time, except when i ams with Mummy so Mummy often puts rescue remedy on my ears which helps a bit.
6) i waits until mummy goes to bed then i gets on the bed & sleeps real close to her, i waits to make sure it is mummy in bed not a vishus tabby killer in disguise pretending to be mummy.
7) i loves playing with Poppygirl & Mitten, we all plays & plays lots & i loves snoozing with them by the fire when it is cold as long as mummy doesn't have visitors.
Now we are going to tag:
1) Jack from http://guyzos.blogspot.com/
2) Meg from http://guyzos.blogspot.com/
3) Ginger from http://psharlene.blogspot.com/
4) Garlic from http://psharlene.blogspot.com/
5) Pepper from http://psharlene.blogspot.com/
6) Sesame from http://psharlene.blogspot.com/
& Winter from http://psharlene.blogspot.com/







